Posted by Ilene on April 20, 2004, at 20:44:46
In reply to Re: Dear diary April 18 » Ilene, posted by fallsfall on April 20, 2004, at 8:02:37
> You know, Ilene, a day can be busy either because we are in constant motion, or because our *brains* are in constant motion. On the 18th there were a number of significant issues that you dealt with that contained "stress" - difficult emotional components. These issues beat the crap out of us. It would be less wear and tear on my to run (well, walk) a marathon than it did to get my daughter to school (late again), and talk to the Vice Principal about how we can work together to get her to realize that she needs to be at school on time. It took me 2 hours to do the morning thing with my daughter - but the cost on my energy levels and motivation are much higher than that.
>That would send me into orbit around the Anxiety Planet.
> Does this mean that we should just lay down on the floor and not move? No. But it does mean that it is reasonable to recognize the cost of emotional issues. And it is reasonable to be proud of ourselves when we handle them well.
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> *MY* impression after reading your April 18 diary entry was that there was significant emotional turmoil that day, but that you still kept going and did get some stuff accomplished. To me, that is a busy day.
But--but--but--but--it was just an ordinary day! (Can you tell I always want to apologize for myself?)
poster:Ilene
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