Posted by fallsfall on August 28, 2003, at 7:23:09
In reply to fallsfall, posted by kara lynne on August 28, 2003, at 1:22:14
Kara,
Print out your post and hang it next to your telephone. Let it remind you of the hurt that he inflicted on you.>>But he isn't even trying! *Maybe* if he had come to me and truly aplogized, humbled himself and made an effort I could have been talked into it. You see how shaky my resolve is, and I would have loved for things to have been made 'all better now'. But he only apologized as an afterthought, and even then it was expressed as an annoyance, rather than something from his own heart that he wanted to heal between us. Maybe it really is a gift that he didn't.
Do you know why he didn't apologize? It's because he isn't sorry. Things were working the way he liked them. He was cruel, and you were groveling. You deserve better. You deserve much better.
>>the relationship died for me that night he looked me in the eye and told me I did not deserve love and would never find it.
He can't be more wrong. You might not deserve HIS love and you might never find HIS love (maybe because he doesn't have any), but there is a ton of love in the world waiting for you. Babble is starting things off for you with our hundreds of pounds of love. You'll find more just outside your door. Because you DO deserve love - you are worthy of love. You are a sweet and kind person.
Isn't it possible to block a particular phone number from calling your phone?
Keep holding on.
Don't call him
Don't email him
Listen to your therapist.
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