Posted by Miller on April 4, 2003, at 8:09:07
In reply to Hi Miller » Miller, posted by sienna on April 3, 2003, at 23:56:37
Sienna,
The sad part is that you may never know "why" he does it. I am sure he doesn't know himself. That has been a huge part of my therapy as well. The why's aren't always there to be known.
Growing up, I always created my own "why's". Such as being a high-maintenance child or doing bad things, etc. Now that I am starting to see my past a little more clearly, I can't MAKE my parents react the way I want or not want them to.
I know it is a sad, painful, and lonely process, but I am holding onto the hope that once I reach the destination, it will all be worth it.
If I could ask for a perfect resolution, it would be very similar to what I believe yours would be. I want to feel comfortable and close to my parents and secure with myself.
:)
-Miller
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