Posted by sienna on April 3, 2003, at 23:56:37
In reply to Re: Child abuse questions..... » sienna, posted by Miller on April 3, 2003, at 16:50:32
Hi
I knwo you are right. i am working out how i feel. i thought i had it all worked out, but after this last assualt i am way confused. its just that the damage he did is still there so much and i awlways feel like im weak and cant take care of myself and that its my fault. and that damage is severe, but i dont wnat to be resentful and blame him expecially hes tryingso hard to do goodnow and still makes mistakes but has matured alot. (well he is 59 now)....
i need to get to a place where its ok for me to realize he did somuch damage and still be able to love him and acceept that it wasnt my fault AND that he did the best he could. Its ust confused right now.
sienna
p.s. you are helping a lot thanks so much for caring and writing me.
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