Posted by bookgurl99 on February 16, 2003, at 9:17:36
In reply to My self-esteem needs a shot in the self-esteem, posted by Tabitha on February 15, 2003, at 17:11:19
LOL. This tag-line really made me laugh.
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Stuff with exes is really hard. It's even harder that your friend is with him. Why do women behave as though there's a huge man shortage, poaching on their friend's men when men make up 49% of the population? it's like, 'that one's still fresh, take him.'
(actually, lesbians are just as bad. trust me. i wasn't one week dumped when other girls tried playing matchmaker for me and their single friends.)
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i similarly have thoughts that my life is all wrong. for me, it's based on academic and professional achievement. but, if i think i'm worthless for not having a degree, how come i don't think that everyone who doesn't have a college degree is worthless?
similarly, do you really think that every single, unmarried, childless woman is worthless? surely you don't really think we are. why not give yourself the same credit?
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i wouldn't be bookgurl99 if i didn't have a book recommendation every now and then. Glance at "if the buddha dated" while you're at the bookstore. :D
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