Posted by syringachalet on December 12, 2002, at 5:17:03
In reply to Dinah I have no idea where this belongs! , posted by Alii on December 11, 2002, at 23:47:29
Ali, what courage it has taken to come this far and be able to share with us here...
Often when a person feels like his life is spinning out of control, temporarily given up some of that control is the only answer.
A therapist once told me that it was like juggling that you can only jugle some many then you start dropping eventually.
That by giving up some of control temporarily
you can focus on the the really important stuff without a lot of other pressures and distractions.
Also by being in a tight'closed' group, you can work not only on trust issues but you can learn to 'bounce' ideas off other people familiar with your struggles and not be critized or overwhelm others outside your group that can not truly relate.Good luck. You are headed in the right direction...
syringachalet
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