Posted by Dinah on November 6, 2001, at 10:49:03
In reply to Please married/committed folk help! :), posted by Krazy Kat on November 5, 2001, at 18:49:10
For what it's worth, I think it's important to separate the two issues. You are unhappy in your marriage. You are attracted to someone else. It would be impossible to work on both problems at once. How would you know how much of the unhappiness is caused by the attraction or how much the attraction is caused by the unhappiness. It's like buying a new car. You are supposed to negotiate a price and then talk about a trade in.
If you want to decide to evaluate your marriage, do that. Somehow, unhealthy obsessive relationships (if I read what you are saying correctly) always manage to be around later.
poster:Dinah
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