Posted by tina on November 5, 2001, at 19:17:23
In reply to Please married/committed folk help! :), posted by Krazy Kat on November 5, 2001, at 18:49:10
> I'm on the verge of seeing this man again, just to "talk". I know it's wrong - like stealing is wrong, and all those good morals/ethics. But life is so wrong right now, and it feels like it has been for 9-1/2 years.
Oh KK, this is a BIG problem. I have been there. I really have.
Every marriage is different so my advice is see a councellor about the 'wrong' feelings before things get so messed up you can't fix it. If you really are unhappy in the marriage and it's not just the depression and/or mental illness coloring your feelings, then be honest with your spouse. Don't go behind his back, please. It's not respecting yourself or him or this other man. You really need to think about the reasons that you NEED to see this other man and what he really has that you want that you can't get from your husband.
I am willing to talk about this off the board if you like. I do know what you're feeling. I went through exactly the same thing not too long ago.
Just let me know if you want to talk.
Think ALOT before doing something though, OK?Tina
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