Important

Posted by Kath on April 12, 2008, at 21:38:53

In reply to Re: when is it abuse?, posted by shangrila7 on April 5, 2008, at 17:30:16

PS - I believe that the pattern would be - if he thinks you're going to leave (or if you do) he would either:
- behave violently/threateningly
OR
- behave SOOOOOOOO lovingly, sweetly, etc If he did this, I suspect it would be to either make you think that he is really NICE/LOVING etc & you are crazy OR to coax you into staying so he can once again have control over you
One way or the other - the abuse WILL continue.
luv, Kath

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when is it abuse? gazo 3/21/07
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Re: when is it abuse? - gazo » Kath Kath 4/4/07
Re: when is it abuse? - gazo » Kath gazo 4/4/07
Re: when is it abuse? » Happyflower BiPolarLen 4/4/07
Re: when is it abuse? - gazo Kath 4/4/07
Re: when is it abuse? - gazo » Kath gazo 4/19/07
Re: when is it abuse? - gazo » gazo Kath 4/19/07
Re: when is it abuse? - gazo (nm) Lynk 6/2/07
Re: when is it abuse? - gazo hoolahoop 9/2/07
Re: when is it abuse? shangrila7 4/5/08
Re: when is it abuse? BiPolarLen 4/7/08
Re: when is it abuse? tunguska 4/12/08
It IS abuse RIGHT NOW » shangrila7 Kath 4/12/08
Important Kath 4/12/08
Re: Gazo: RUN do not Walk and Get This Book sassyfrancesca 5/9/08
Re: when is it abuse? shangrila7 7/7/08
Re: when is it abuse? friesandcoke 7/24/09

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