Posted by karen_kay on March 13, 2008, at 10:32:55
In reply to help: In relationship w/emotionally abusive man, posted by noelle on March 10, 2008, at 15:17:15
is he open to therapy at all? couples therapy? therapy for jsut himself? if not, what about you get some, just for yourself.
or have you pointed out that it hurts you when he puts you down? if so, what happens?
geez, i'm no relationship expert hun, i wish i was! but no one deserves to be belittled, criticized and fearful. no one!
you say you aren't ready to leave him. did you assuem that's what the answer would be? doyou love him? and why aren't you ready to leave him? trust me, you can always find another guy who makes you feel like sh*t out there....
write back dear, i'll keep checking!!
kk
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