Posted by Kath on April 2, 2007, at 13:53:16
In reply to Re: when is it abuse? - gazo » one woman cine, posted by gazo on March 31, 2007, at 13:02:11
Guess what?
There are ways & ways of saying things.
It would be so nice if HE could learn to say how he FEELS instead of yelling at you.
"I" messages are so much better then "you" messages.
"I am so frustrated when you do that..."
versus
"You make me so dam**d mad when you..."
K
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