Posted by KayLen on July 8, 2006, at 14:45:43
In reply to Time to Get Over It, posted by Joan797 on July 4, 2006, at 2:16:48
Hi, Joan
Gosh you have alot to contend with, I ran away from that same kinda stuff .. maybe as bad in its own way ...but I think the biggest difference is you seem very mad ...very angry..is it from what your being dealt....or because your choosing to deal with it as unfair as it is? I am one who used to blame everyone eles for MY life ...and how bad it was...I know now that I am not a victim or a hostage unless I allow it ...so now I hold myself hostage...*smile*...very true now that I look at it. Maybe your doing that also?
I discoverd that I was the only one responcible for my life..it was hard to take responsibility for such a terrible spot I was in...because to do that meant now I HAVE TO DO something about it ..I had to stop blaming someone else and stop dweling on the negative...and begin my search for a solution..and thats where I am now ...ive just come out of a desparate silence...and have begun a search for a solution. Right here in this forum..hopefully you and all of us can find our way on this road of travel that we call life. AND may it become a happy road for you ...PEACE
kaylen
ps. It is funny how the same sayings get turned around from people to people ...I always was told
There is NO rest for the wicked. *S*
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