Posted by Dinah on April 23, 2006, at 21:10:54 [reposted on April 24, 2006, at 12:16:29 | original URL]
In reply to Re: No problem..., posted by bassman on April 21, 2006, at 14:02:17
It's not necessarily passive agressiveness. I think women sometimes like to process their days through talking about them. So they might come home and rant a bit then feel better.
I procrastinate all the time in things that have nothing to do with my husband as well as things that do. I just have a hard time organizing myself. I get distracted by other things along the way.
In our house we just deal with it (on both sides) by doing what's important to us ourselves. That's the rule. If it's important to you that it gets done, you do it. If it's important to you that it gets done in a certain way, you do it. Since both of us tend to get impatient with the timeliness of the other in doing what's important to us, it works well.
And I keep a therapist to talk about stuff to.
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