Posted by TexasChic on November 16, 2005, at 18:26:45
In reply to no girlfriend so I turned to prostition, posted by MichaelJr on November 16, 2005, at 12:42:52
First and foremost, I have a VERY strong opinion about prostitution, but probably not what you think. I believe it is incredibly WRONG for it to be ILLEGAL to have sex with someone and give them money. This is a MORAL subject that the government should have no jurisdiction over.
That being said, dude, if it were as easy to get straight male prostitutes and not be scared they're a serial killer or something, I would so be there. Unfortuntely, its just not the same for women.
And THAT being said, anything, no matter what it is, that you get obssessed with and it begins to effect your life, is something to be concerned about. It sounds as if you're substituting for a real relationship. You're still young and I think you will eventually want something more, but why waste all this practice time? You've got to practice being social with regular girls. I put off a romantic life for much the same reasons, and now I'm 35 going through all the dating dilemas I should've gone through at 25. Believe me, get the imbarrassing stuff out of the way NOW. Because if you ever want a real relationship, you will have to go through it all eventually anyway.
-T
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