Posted by happyflower on August 9, 2005, at 13:42:06
In reply to Re Fall in love with yourself first! (a must read), posted by kid47 on August 9, 2005, at 12:23:24
> > I think if you love yourself enough, you will be attractive to others.<
I think there is a difference in loving yourself and thinking that you are god's gift to women and so perfect. A guy like that would turn me off. But it seems like you don't want to take care of yourself or want to hang out with you, why would anyone want to either? It seeems to me that you put off this image of being confident, but really inside you are very insecure. A real women who is confident in themselves can see right through the "image".
My DH and I are both musicians, and I do admit that that attracts people, but it is your image they are being attracted to, not really you. Maybe you are attracting the women, but they are being put off by your personality once they get past the "image". Money, good looks, being a musican, being funny are all good things, but it isn't why real women fall in love with someone. It is what is inside that counts, and anything less than that wouldn't keep my atttention either or make me fall in love. Maybe a one night stand, but love no way. If you want to attract another type of women, you need to discover that there is more to yourself than just an image. A quality women is looking for much more than a pretty face who is rich and think of themselves as perfect. JMHO
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