Posted by tamar on August 8, 2005, at 16:23:57
In reply to Re: I need to fall madly in love... » tamar, posted by kid47 on August 8, 2005, at 13:25:15
> I've seen quite a few potential prospects.....just about any of the female cast of "The Young and the Restless"....and I've kernoodled (I don't have any idea what that word means) with some women on line that seemed lovable.....
Ah… well, that’s fine if you’re happy to fall madly in love with someone you have never met.
> >If so, eye contact is the key. Lots of eye contact.<
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> Eye contact could be a problem (see above)Virtual contact just isn’t the same! About the eye contact thing: apparently making eye contact is the first thing that happens when people begin to fall in love. Making eye contact – and maintaining it – is a sign of attraction, but it’s also something people do with those they love. It’s a good way of initiating and maintaining intimacy. Mind you, if you do it too much it can seem threatening. You have to be sure the other person's reciprocating.
> Actually, since my recent divorce, I have had relationships with some women IRL...they start off OK but invariably they stall for some reason. I have a good friend (female) who tells me I'm too picky, which I interpert to mean I am asking for more than I can offer in return.
Or maybe you’re asking for something that’s impossible for one woman to fulfil. We’re only human, you know!
Tamar
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