Posted by crazy teresa on July 19, 2005, at 20:14:17
In reply to Re: New to forum...need it in a BAD way, posted by Mountain Man on July 19, 2005, at 10:21:22
I'm sorry I hurt your feelings. But things will never change or get better unless you get to the bottom of the real problems. I hope you don't feel like I was judging you, that was not my intent. I was glad to see you had replied to my post, but afraid to look at it! ;~}
I'm so glad you're seeing a T this week. I'm proud of you for taking this big step! You should be proud of yourself, too!!!
Since things moved so fast with your 2nd marriage, you never had a chance to grieve the loss of your first marriage; so I would agree with what you said about your emotions.
Have you talked to your wife since you left? Do you think she'd be willing to go to counseling with you? Maybe it would be a good idea to ask your T if couples' T would be good right now, if
your wife agrees to go with you.I hope this situation hasn't made work awkward for you.
It seems like everything in life is kind of a roller coaster--marriage, work, feelings, money, etc. It goes up and down, over and over again; sometimes we throw up all over each other. It can be a slow climb back to the top, but eventually we get there and fling our arms back up into the air. (LOL!! I think I'm morphing into Jack Handey...)
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