Posted by happyflower on June 26, 2005, at 23:11:11 [reposted on June 27, 2005, at 23:23:24 | original URL]
In reply to Re: relieved for therapy this week, very sh#tty day » happyflower, posted by Jazzed on June 26, 2005, at 22:59:27
Jazzy,
We must have the same MIL! I even tried to go to their church and everything. I tried so hard in the beggining to have her like me. But some people you just can't please.
I swear we are sisters or soul mates or something, our lives are so much in common!
My BIL is married, and his wife went through the ringer with our MIL, but lucky for her they moved away. But now they are taking this "we can do better" for them. Well she is sure making her mark on them!
My husband has gotten much better about this, but it took me and every failed relationship of his to see how she is.
He did call her tonight, and told her to quit bad mouthing me and it wasn't my fault we have to postpone the trip. But you know what, I am not going to go there. Nope! My well of forgiveness is dry for her. She even makes my kids cry, they don't want to go either. I hope I can be a lot nicer of a MIL when my kids get married. I have learned what NOT to do. lol
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