Posted by Chairman_MAO on May 12, 2005, at 14:36:20
In reply to Re: realization, posted by sunny10 on May 12, 2005, at 14:22:11
Very eloquently stated; and such a quick turnaround time from time time I posted, too!
What you said is somehwat like what my girlfriend is trying to hammer into my head. Sometimes you just need to hear the same thing from a neutral party, you know? What's also weird is that, at the deepest levels, I don't believe what my insecurities are telling me. Upon further reflection, I think the reason it was so hard for me to accept that my girlfriend no longer wanted a guy like that is because feeling "worthy" of being the object of someone's romantic love, feeling adequate sexually, etc. is very new to me, because my illness is now under control.
You have my sincere thanks. :)
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