Posted by AdaGrace on February 27, 2005, at 12:23:12
In reply to Re: found out I was doing all the work alone, posted by sunny10 on February 25, 2005, at 15:38:33
I find it all to familiar. This situation of yours. People don't change easily into what others think they should be. The phrase "I stayed to long at the fair" Reminds me of what happens often in relationships, expecially mine. It's good for a while, and then you keep riding the ferris wheel over and over and over again until it makes you dizzy and sick. And that extra hotdog you ate with chili, extra relish, and onions is now boiling up your esophogis (sp?) threatening to projectile across the cage you are in, out into the crowd of people who are watching you spiral downward at a quick and deadly pace.
Yikes, where did that come from?
Seriously Sunny. He doesn't sound as if he is going to change. Can you find him a room mate? So you can leave? Have you told him you are considering leaving, and ask him how he would handle the rent?
Talk to him Sunny. If it gets abusive, physical or mental, leave for a few days until he calms down and see if he can discuss the rent $ situation.
Easy for me to say.........I can't even go pee without having to announce it. I went to town today, just roamed around and after about an hour, I was being paged, called, and asked to explain my whereabouts.........HO HUM...
Ada, sitting in the same boat, Grace
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