Posted by Susan47 on February 25, 2005, at 14:37:21
In reply to Re: not-so-sunny today, posted by sunny10 on February 25, 2005, at 14:08:45
Hold it. A couple of days ago you were posting how together you were and how wonderful it was that you found each other. And before that you were worried about his confrontational ways, now you're posting that he lied to you about his drug use, which is obviously really important to you as well. Are you trying to make a bad thing seem good so you can justify staying? Because if you seriously think that's a possibility, you ought to think about that some more. I can guarantee you it will end in pain if that's the case, and the longer you wait the worse the pain will be... but now I'm talking about myself again, because I stayed in a relationship I knew was bad from the beginning. I stayed for ten years. Man, I tried. I tried so hard. For the last two years I basically went to bed. Really. And I had children. I had two children, knowing right off the bat he was the completely totally wrong person for me. But I needed him. Seriously, think about it, okay? I'd love to be wrong about you. Maybe he can change, but maybe he should do it without you. Because you feel bad, and I don't think that's good.
But you were saying too that you were going to move to Hawaii together, weren't you? Are you afraid to give up that dream, or do it alone or with someone else?
Oh, Sunny. (((Sunny10)))
Maybe it's just a bad day.
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