Posted by sunny10 on February 25, 2005, at 15:38:33
In reply to Re: not-so-sunny today, posted by Susan47 on February 25, 2005, at 14:37:21
just last night.... Remember, I said we had issues that we both had to work on??? That was one of his issues.
I am not ending our relationship because he does "a little" coke (not daily)-
I had told him that if he felt that he wanted to indulge, that he needed to do it away from me (not in our home)because it changes him into someone that I don't like.
I am ending it because last night he showed me that he is capable of hiding things behind my back AND disrespecting me by assuming I was too dumb to notice.
A relationship with two not-perfect people who were working together while working out their separate issues is okay with me- normal "life-style"baggage anyway for anyone over twenty-five!
But I refuse to be the only one working on "our future"- and I DOUBLY refuse to be in a relationship which is suddenly not based on honesty and respect at all.
But now I have to live with him until August 1,2006 when the lease expires as both of our names are on the lease. I can't afford to pay for two places... if he decides to leave, I'll get a roommate. If I tried to leave, he'd probably demand half the rent every month...
Ah, an attractor of manipulators.... apparently I wasn't through with that like I thought...
Sorry- I know it's obvious that I am very angry...I seem to have shot right past depression into anger- frankly, I'm afraid to go home... but it's time to leave work now...
-sunny10
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