Posted by sunny10 on November 22, 2004, at 12:05:12
In reply to vwoolf » verne, posted by saw on November 22, 2004, at 1:32:06
I agree with verne- up to a point.
Make sure someone OUTSIDE of the situation (a respectable third party) knows what's going on.
THEN, try to deal with it as everyone has suggested.
Protect yourself against any possible "she's crazy, that never happened" comments that hubby may try to use against you with social services if it ever has to get that far later on.
I wish you all of the best. Perhaps, along with all of the baseball bat advice, you could throw in the idea that he go to anger managment therapy (best case scenario you suggest this in front of that third party)?
I know this all sounds cold and analytical. I am just looking to protect you in anyway that I can.
A million hugs for your disassociated heart, sweetie, I really am sorry that this happened to you. And a million kisses for your furrowed brow.
-sunny10
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