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vwoolf » verne

Posted by saw on November 22, 2004, at 1:32:06

In reply to Re: He hit me, posted by verne on November 22, 2004, at 0:04:25

My ex husband beat me and threw me around like a rag doll, 3 months into our dating relationship and I still married him! I was only 18 years old. My hurt was so severe, I shut it away and "made" myself love him more.

I live in constant fear that it will happen again. I live in constant fear that I deserve it to happen again.

I am quivering with rage right now. This is something you did not deserve. No amount of quarreling, provocation, picking a fight - none of it, ever warrants being punched. I instinctively felt very protective of you.

I hope you are ok. I know on the outside you are just fine. What is on the inside needs a bit more nuturing right now.

Thinking of you and when you are ready, you know how to get hold of me.

Sabrina



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