Be wary.... » justyourlaugh

Posted by 64bowtie on November 18, 2004, at 17:01:02

In reply to is it me?, posted by justyourlaugh on November 17, 2004, at 7:49:29

Be wary of approval as a measure of your caring for a significant other. Toooo many kids never really see love, witness love, so they go through their adult life guessing at what love is.
Love is not "I love you", unless there is a distintly familiar "caring-without-obligation". Proof is that the opposite of love is not hate. An opposite of approval and desire can be hate and disgust. The opposite of love is indifference.
I hope this helps.....
Rod

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is it me? justyourlaugh 11/17/04
Re: is it me? » justyourlaugh partlycloudy 11/17/04
Re: is it me? » partlycloudy justyourlaugh 11/17/04
Don't beat yourself up partlycloudy 11/17/04
Re: is it me? » justyourlaugh sunny10 11/17/04
Be wary.... » justyourlaugh 64bowtie 11/18/04
Re: Be wary.... justyourlaugh 11/19/04
Re: Be wary.... » justyourlaugh partlycloudy 11/19/04
More of my soft-shoe, so as to not offend » justyourlaugh 64bowtie 11/21/04
Re: More of my soft-shoe, so as to not offend » 64bowtie antigua 11/21/04
Re: More of my soft-shoe, so as to not offend justyourlaugh 11/21/04
Oink... (nm) » justyourlaugh 64bowtie 11/22/04
Re: I have a question - off topic » 64bowtie AuntieMel 11/22/04
Re: I have a question - off topic » AuntieMel 64bowtie 11/24/04
Re: this is true, but » 64bowtie AuntieMel 11/26/04
Re: this is true, but » AuntieMel sunny10 11/29/04
Re: More of my soft-shoe, so as to not offend » 64bowtie Dinah 12/1/04
Re: this is true, but » AuntieMel Dinah 12/1/04
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Re: this is true, but » Dinah sunny10 12/5/04

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