Posted by partlycloudy on November 17, 2004, at 8:17:15
In reply to is it me?, posted by justyourlaugh on November 17, 2004, at 7:49:29
Do you let his moods control how you feel about him? Lots of times I'll think my husband is fuming at me, and I get all annoyed. I start fuming back and before you know if I'm having a sulk or stomping around the house. Then it turns out he's in a bad mood that has nothing to do with me (it's usually work) and I have distorted what I see and hear because I don't feel that good about myself. Does that make any sense? I have to do a better job of listening to what he's saying and allow him to have a bad day, because it isn't my fault or responsibility.
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