Posted by sunny10 on November 17, 2004, at 8:27:38
In reply to is it me?, posted by justyourlaugh on November 17, 2004, at 7:49:29
yes, it is you. And me. And AdaGrace, Susan47, and most of the rest of us, too.
It is very difficult to feel calmly/ strongly/ without doubt/ for anyone else when we can't feel that way about ourselves.
It is true that we have to love ourselves first before we can fully participate in a relationship. Of course, I say this not really knowing HOW to do that exactly...
Maybe if you pretend to be nurturing HIM, but actually nurture YOU?
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