Posted by Crazy_Charlie on November 3, 2004, at 1:23:42
In reply to Re: Am I just selfish and unfair? (very long) » Crazy_Charlie, posted by Colleen D. on November 2, 2004, at 19:28:49
Thank you for respons.
My bf is very good in helping me on a regular basis. We are very much equal in taking care of our daughter. He knows very well how much it takes to take care of her, since he has had her alone for 2 weeks. The reason I reacted so much this time, was simply that I couldn't take care of her, I was too sick... I drifted in and out of sleep, I didn't always know where she was and what she was doing. I lost my temper several times (without doing anything but yelling, but I still think that is too much), and today my daughter don't want to look at me, and start crying if I touch her. I don't know. I just know that if I had been working and he were supposed to be home with her, I would have taken the day off. Not necessarily because of him, but simply because I wouldn't leave my daughter with someone who can't even take proper care of themselves.
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