Posted by Crazy_Charlie on November 2, 2004, at 16:10:27
In reply to Am I just selfish and unfair? (very long), posted by Crazy_Charlie on November 2, 2004, at 6:18:16
I put my daughter to bed at some point, unavailable to take care of her on a proper way. She didn't object, but went to sleep almost immediately, so I popped off to bed myself and fell asleep completely exhausted. An hour later my bf comes home, and wakes me up to confront me of whether I am pissed off at him because he went to work. I try to convey that I am very tired, but he goes on with that I have to understand that he has to go to work. I just reply that right now I don't understand this, and he then asks what are we going to do about that. At that time I had reached the point were I couldnt really keep talking, and asked him to please leave me alone since I am sick and I don't feel like talking about this now. Which he responds in a very sarcastic way that he suppose I never want to discuss this and leaves.
I am really upset, and hurt. I have had some kind of virus all the time for the last month, I don't have any more strength to take from. And I'm still wondering if I feel like this just because I am spoiled, and that in a relationship you have to give a bit more than I have done. Please, someone?
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