Posted by Colleen D. on November 2, 2004, at 19:28:49
In reply to Am I just selfish and unfair? (very long), posted by Crazy_Charlie on November 2, 2004, at 6:18:16
It is VERY difficult for me to take care of my children when I am sick, and I think sometimes men just don't fully comprehend the challenge it can be to take care of young children even when you're not sick. I would say that you are lucky that he has helped as much as he has because my husband of 9 years does much less to help me with our 3 little ones, ages 5, 2 and 1 on a daily basis. I also tend to feel sorry for myself when I'm ill and then seem to do better with those kinds of thoughts when I'm back to my healthier self. All I can say and I hope it's some comfort to you is that IT WILL GET BETTER! Children grow and become less dependent on us and our lives changes constantly. Try to keep your chin up and appreciate that your boyfriend is working hard to support his family and trying to do what he can at home too. I think you'll feel better soon - when you're able to put more time into your studies!
Hugs,
Colleen
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