Psycho-Babble Relationships | about interpersonal relationships | Framed
This thread | Show all | Post follow-up | Start new thread | List of forums | Search | FAQ

Re: My tragic life...

Posted by Jai Narayan on October 31, 2004, at 19:56:29

In reply to My tragic life..., posted by alexandra_k on October 31, 2004, at 0:09:21

> Except church leaders, teachers and the like, but then that was when I was a teenager.

* Please think about these questions since you are on a public forum I don't want you to share anything personal that you want to keep private.
I sometimes forget about the public part of PB.

Okay why do you think these people gave you the type of attention you wanted when you were a teenager?
What (if anything) did these people have in common?
How have you changed since you were a teenager?
Were you more open? Did you ask for more support?
Look at what was similar and what's different.

> I feel like my body is all wired up wrong now.

*What does that mean? How is that possible...did something happen? Do you experience pain when it could be pleasure etc? Or is it more psychological?

> I don't think I'll ever be anything but.

*Why do you think that?
because you are single now?
I didn't meet my longterm mate till I was 38 years old.
I had some really bad relationships to distract me from being worried about being alone.
I mean they were really bad.

Everybody has their own timing and rhythm.
If I were right there with you I would ask you:
Ask youself what is standing in your way...you might get an interesting answer.
You sound like you have a busy life and maybe a mate would ask too much of you right now? Are you leaving the area? Do you want to get involved with someone now or when you arrive in....USA or where ever you end up?
One never knows what life has in store for them right around the corner.
Jai, your buddy in the good ole USA


Share
Tweet  

Thread

 

Post a new follow-up

Your message only Include above post


Notify the administrators

They will then review this post with the posting guidelines in mind.

To contact them about something other than this post, please use this form instead.

 

Start a new thread

 
Google
dr-bob.org www
Search options and examples
[amazon] for
in

This thread | Show all | Post follow-up | Start new thread | FAQ
Psycho-Babble Relationships | Framed

poster:Jai Narayan thread:409437
URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/relate/20041015/msgs/409781.html