Posted by Pfinstegg on October 31, 2004, at 13:24:28
In reply to My tragic life..., posted by alexandra_k on October 31, 2004, at 0:09:21
You sound like a really nice person- lively, intelliigent, warm and fun. There must be a reason that you haven't had a real relationship yet. Just some thoughts: do you meet men whom you like and are attracted to? (I guess I'm thinking here that you may not give yourself permission to have your own natural feelings) Do you get scared if relationships move into caring as well as sex? That is quite scary for everybody, of course, but for some people, it's really paralyzing. Good therapy can help so much with these two things, as well as with self-confidence. Just guessing here- but I would think a male therapist would be a good choice for you. If I remember correctly, you have TWO therapists right now- one of each sex, right?
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