Posted by Kay-Len on October 21, 2004, at 18:42:14
In reply to Re: I am living a double life...or am I surviving one, posted by Jai Narayan on October 20, 2004, at 20:09:43
> As the story unfolds it gets even more complicated. I think you would do well to have at least one person who understood what is and was going on for you.
> there was a suggestion of maybe getting a therapist?
> I know I would need support in your situation.
>
> Were you close to your sister before she made that comment about your husband?
> Seems like you had wanted her support.
> I have many sisters in my family and some are supportive and others not....just not.
> keep in touch
> Jai
>
>
>Hello Jia
I am learning first hand the saying "oh what a wicked web we weave when we begin to decieve"..or thats close anyway. I am stuck....I have always been close with my sister, at the same time knowing she can be a bit cold ...and we did have a wedge between for some time ...she still doesent want to take sides {her words}or talk about it ..If she knew I really don't have anyone to talk to she would listen ..but I wouldnt feel right knowing just to be a friend was an imposition to her...but she did say she understands now why i did what I did..that helped alot but I still need to UNLOAD...fess-up...purge..
Ive noticed how truly kind you are Jia and I want you to know I appreciate it a lot ...some days /nights it seems i can hardley breath because the lump in my throat gets tight...I sure never thought I would be in this kinda jam...opps someone coming in...bye and thank you very much
Kay-len
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