Posted by AdaGrace on October 18, 2004, at 10:42:33
In reply to Re: (above for Adagrace), posted by dazedandconfused on October 18, 2004, at 9:29:20
My husband knows there was a relationship and that I intended to meet him, but thinks it was over two years ago. I blew the whole thing off to him as a simple fantasy and he seemed to buy that. But he has trouble forgiving and still refers to it as an affair even though I never admitted to the real intimacy.
No, I do not think that telling him the whole story is a good idea. To purge myself of the whole thing to him would only hurt him in the long run and I don't want to do that. Since the other guy rejected me I never had to admitt to my husband my true feelings for this guy, which as of right now I think is the best way to deal with it since I am still unsure if I want to leave him or not. My T agrees with this.
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