Posted by Susan47 on September 29, 2004, at 8:06:26
In reply to vent, woman, vent!! » Susan47, posted by just plain jane on September 28, 2004, at 23:36:00
I mostly feel sorry for him. :[
BUT yesterday I realized this thing... I allow people (IRL, not here) to walk all over me and then I lie down and ask them to do it again. Not literally, of course. Even my children have very few limits, and treat me like Sh**. Now that they're living with their dad, it's not as easy for them though. Now that I'm gone, I'm appreciated more than ever. Plus I'm setting limits and making demands, but why oh why didn't I know this thirty years ago?
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