Posted by pegasus on January 16, 2012, at 8:34:08
In reply to Re: lonely/dbt/borderline?/crazy?, posted by paisleygirl on January 13, 2012, at 19:19:09
I wonder why you've decided to suffer in silence? Do you have a good sense for why that seems like the best option right now? Are you afraid to broach these subjects with your T, now that she's given you an ultimatum? Or are you trying to punish her? Or are you hoping she'll notice you are being silent, and try to draw you out? Or something else?
Times like this, I find it helpful to try to examine my motives. I learn a lot about what's going on in my head that way. Then I can separate that out from what's going on between me and my T a little bit, when otherwise it seems like it's all part of the same hairball, which it isn't necessarily.
-peg
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