Posted by annierose on March 19, 2011, at 20:55:58
In reply to Re: Thanks Deneb + » Dinah, posted by TherapyGirl on March 19, 2011, at 11:43:33
(((Dinah))))
I am shocked and saddened reading this thread. Of course the wisdom on this board far exceeds the wisdom in your T's head at the present time. "What the f*ck?" as my teenage daughter would say, "was he thinking?" NOT .. apparently. There are no excuses.
But the loves remains and it becomes such a burden. We love our therapists despite their foot in mouth moments.
And I must say, I hate that you were calling him. HE should be calling YOU, apologizing, trying to explain his words. Not that I don't understand your need to call him. You are hurt to the core - a kick in the gut type of feeling that lingers.
Give yourself plenty of time before coming to any conclusions. You might want to leave an open door to your heart. You love him despite his flaws. Give yourself the gift of time.
And take good care of Y O U!!
(I have been out-of-town with a high school group, without internet access, or I would have replied sooner. My heart goes out to you.)
Remember you get to decide if this is the end or not. Not him.
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