Posted by muffled on March 18, 2011, at 14:13:49
In reply to Re: omg, posted by Dinah on March 18, 2011, at 11:45:21
Can you at least sorta consider another T to help you thu this?
Its like your T relationship has kind gone wrong, and I am not sure you and he can sort thru it. That maybe it'd be better to bring in another fresh perspective?
Remember how hard it was for TG to get a new T? She kicked and fought, but she did....tho now she is searching for another one. But once you HAVE done a hard T switch, it gets easier.
I am quitting my T, and its still hard, but its easier than the first one.
Sometimes you just got to move on.
Maybe he can just be kinda more supportive, and you see him 1x/mo, just to say hi, not so much to 'do' therapy. Then he is still 'there' in a fashion...
And if you want to continue therapy....then find a diff T.
I sorry this hurts so bad :( It'd hurt me too :(
Please don't hurt yourself. This is hard, but you will work thru it somehow.
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