Posted by muffled on April 1, 2010, at 9:08:32
In reply to Re: Why do I need my therapist?, posted by Daisym on April 1, 2010, at 0:44:00
whoah, that was a big part of the session B4 last.
T trying to explain we 'mattered' in this world.
We understood we mattered as a measure of our function.
T ssid I mattered to her. I said it was cuz I was a function of her job. That maybe she found me interesting cuz I am of her specialty. That maybe she wanted me to keep comming cuz she worried bout my kids.
My T is so NOT cosy. She never said she 'cared', LOL!!! just that I 'mattered'.
I kind of like it that way.
So it is a confusing topic for sure.
My old T used to say she cared(she was pastoral), but now she gone.
So I dunno what caring means. So I stick with mattering. Cuz it makes sense in the way that we function matters to others.
My thots.
Hope you doing ok Daisy.
M
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