Posted by rnny on January 4, 2010, at 16:21:37
I am seeing a new T, one since my T of many years retired. I have a college degree and a post college degree in a profession. I paid my way through all of these. You don't get through all these classes and get admitted to programs with poor manners. If I had bad manners I would have been kicked out of all the classes and programs. I am truly insulted the T said she thinks I am lacking in the manners area. She says she doesn't like the things I say to her. But the things I say to her are how I feel. For example, she doesn't seem like she has that much experience and I have commented upon that. I don't consider that poor manners. Am I supposed to put on some phony hat before I go into her office and "be on good behavior" or am I supposed to be who I am really am behind closed doors and let her get to know that person. I am so angry that she would tell me, someone with a doctorate in a very hard profession that my manners stink. Would you take that? I am furious! She says she doesn't like the way I speak to her but I don't curse her or verbally abuse her so who in God's name is she to judge my manners. I am about ready to go through the roof. Comments please.
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thread:932479
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