Posted by rnny on December 16, 2009, at 16:16:33
In reply to Longing for Ts kindness, posted by Dewd on December 16, 2009, at 15:40:20
I had a T for years that made me feel the way you describe your T. I was very hurt when she was retiring to find out (had never known) that she had other clients she had been seeing for "years". I went through a very real grieving process losing that love when she retired. I "do" understand that feeling. It is a feeling of being loved and cared about and it is wonderful to have in therapy because you can really open up. The best thing to do is to talk about every feeling and thought you are having. I had to do that with my T. At one point I got the impression that the "love" we had shared was not real and I burst out crying asking her about it. Say every thought that comes to mind with your T. Because not everyone feels that connection you have. Clear the air on everything, don't hold back anything.
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