Posted by Phillipa on October 10, 2009, at 12:54:29
In reply to Re: Homely then » toetapper, posted by Dinah on October 10, 2009, at 9:20:30
Wow I just this thread. I'm amazed. As was said beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Dinah does your husband and Son see you as unattractive? Avoid you? Not want to be seen in public with you? Do people avoid you in the outside world? Do they avert their eyes when the see you? I doubt it but of course only hear your words here where they are eleoquently put. I hate the lines, wrinkles fact that I'd give anything to be middle aged again. In all seriousness those were definitely the very bestest years of my life. Enjoy them and enjoy life while you can. I think my rant is kind of based on a conversation I had with a woman yesterday who lost her 14 year old Daughter to a bout of Cancer. I was totally in awe of her strength which she saw as weakness that she cries? Made me feel so selfish. I think a lot of us all need to live in the present I always think into the future. But I find it hard to believe that a therapist would even agree. I hope I was civil it just stuck a personal nerve as well. Dinah you are a wonderful person. Rejoice in who you are you have a family that truly loves you. Love Phillipa
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