Posted by Dinah on October 9, 2009, at 21:33:13
In reply to Re: Homely then » Dinah, posted by 10derHeart on October 9, 2009, at 21:27:39
Well....
You have a point there.
I'd likely be very uncomfortable referring to anyone but myself as ugly.
It was the first time that my therapist really came out and agreed with me though. I've felt it from him of course. And he's been silent sometimes. And sometimes he comes out with that reflexive denial.
And...
You know how I find those things oddly comforting. Yes, it hurt. And yes tears came to my eyes, and he saw them. But overall I think it was a good thing not a bad thing. I know I'm weird that way. Happy that my therapist said he was bored sometimes and agreed that I'm ugly. Things most people wouldn't particularly care for from their therapists.
I suppose I wouldn't have much cared for it before I felt this secure. Although I think I partially feel this secure because he says things like that.
Maybe I'm just an *odd* ugly duckling. :)
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