Posted by raisinb on May 29, 2009, at 14:43:09
In reply to Re: she still hasn't called back » raisinb, posted by antigua3 on May 29, 2009, at 14:17:09
"Hi raisin, this is [Dr. I don't give a crap about you.] I got your message last night. Sorry I couldn't call you back. I was confused about your message, because I couldn't tell if you wanted to take a break, or if you thought I wanted to take a break. It sounded more like you thought I wanted to take a break. And that's not what I want, I want to continue, that's why I said see you on Monday. If you want to take a break, I understand, but that's not my goal, that's not what I would like to do. So, if I don't hear from you I'll assume that everything's fine, and I'll see you on Monday, unless I hear differently. Hope to see you then."
Um--so what do I do?
a) why the heck did she take so long to call me back if that's all she was going to say? She has never taken that long before.
b) What do I do with this huge discrepancy between what she is in the room and what she says? On Thursday, she clearly DID NOT want to be there and WAS NOT happy to see me. She was *icy.* Yet when I asked her if she was angry, she denied it. Then she turned it back on me, asking how I felt about being there. I said, "I want to go. When I'm in a room with someone who doesn't want to be here with me, it's not helpful for me. It's not good for me." She turned away immediately and wrote me the receipt.
c) And I don't have any hope of getting a full, honest explanation of what her deal was. This has happened over and over again over the years we have seen each other, and I never get any explanation.
poster:raisinb
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