Posted by Cecilia on April 12, 2009, at 19:28:47
In reply to Re: Thank You. I'm really sad about this. » Kenya, posted by rskontos on April 10, 2009, at 21:29:49
> Kenya,
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> Don't take this on as something you did wrong.
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> I rant and rail at my t who is a psychoanalyst. And he never has treated me in the manner your's did you. I have left, I have called and said I can't come anymore and he never accepted it.
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> I have tried to say I have no money, he treats me for free now, I have tried everything to walk away from this therapy relationship, yet my t won't let me.
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> I am only telling you this because that is the way therapy should be, the therapist should be ok in his/her own skin and be able to take whatever you dish out, I mean within reason. No threats or anything.
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> I guess maybe I got lucky.
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> But you do need a therapist and I don't think this is the right one.
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> You deserve better and I know it will be hard but I found my current one in the middle of a crisis. In fact, I called him crying, left a message that i am sure did not make sense, he called me right back and talked for about 30 minutes and saw me the next day for 2 hours.
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> Good ones are out there. Please do go looking.
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> I am so sorry this happened. Again, it is NOT your fault, it is hers.
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> rskRSK, your T won't LET you quit? That's the scariest thing I've ever heard. Whose life is it anyway? I had a T like Kenya's who gave up on me after 7 years. telling me she dreaded our sessions, and the pain was excruciating, but in retrospect that's better, in my opinion, than a T like yours who feels he has the right to totally control your life. Cecilia
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