Posted by rskontos on April 10, 2009, at 21:29:49
In reply to Thank You. I'm really sad about this., posted by Kenya on April 10, 2009, at 13:18:59
Kenya,
Don't take this on as something you did wrong.
I rant and rail at my t who is a psychoanalyst. And he never has treated me in the manner your's did you. I have left, I have called and said I can't come anymore and he never accepted it.
I have tried to say I have no money, he treats me for free now, I have tried everything to walk away from this therapy relationship, yet my t won't let me.
I am only telling you this because that is the way therapy should be, the therapist should be ok in his/her own skin and be able to take whatever you dish out, I mean within reason. No threats or anything.
I guess maybe I got lucky.
But you do need a therapist and I don't think this is the right one.
You deserve better and I know it will be hard but I found my current one in the middle of a crisis. In fact, I called him crying, left a message that i am sure did not make sense, he called me right back and talked for about 30 minutes and saw me the next day for 2 hours.
Good ones are out there. Please do go looking.
I am so sorry this happened. Again, it is NOT your fault, it is hers.
rsk
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