Posted by Deputy Dinah on December 22, 2008, at 12:01:00
In reply to Thank you my supporters, posted by SlugSlimersSoSlided on December 22, 2008, at 10:58:15
> I guess my T thinks it is great I am so caring and giving, but I need to adjust my boundaries of those who are only taking advantage of my good will.
It isn't clear whether you are speaking of other Babblers when you refer to "those who are only taking advantage of my good will."
If you are, would you please rephrase that statements into an "I" statements? Statements about how you feel rather than about what another person does? Or what another person's intentions might be?
I realize that it's not always easy to rephrase things as I statements. If you have any questions about that, please let us know.
I hope you realize that this doesn't mean I don't like you, or that I don't support you. I do like you and I do support you.
Dinah, acting as deputy to Dr. Bob
poster:Deputy Dinah
thread:870259
URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/psycho/20081219/msgs/870274.html