Posted by maysie on November 15, 2008, at 12:09:23
In reply to Re: 'T' has trouble staying awake,2nd more story » maysie, posted by lucie lu on November 15, 2008, at 7:23:13
Regarding being in a relationship where I "did" the work, that would be the relationship with my mother, which put me in the suicide ward.
With T's I've had various amounts of luck. I think I have had soem wonderful Ts and the "bad" ones, I've never stayed as long as I have with this one. In the other discussion regarding attachment, this T is a boundary freak, he will share nothing about his life (well except his chickens). I'm having a grieving time this weekend, as I realize I have to quit him. I don't think I'll ever go back in the hospital, but I know having a good T is one way to insure that will not happen. I'm a scared to be without as I find another T. Guess I could use him, without expectations (not sure I can do that), while I try to find another T. That's a risky thing to do when I think of what he could do with his lack of empathy. Things to mull over, as our house seems to be a sick ward this weekend.
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