Posted by Nadezda on September 22, 2008, at 17:42:37
In reply to Everyone, posted by lemonaide on September 22, 2008, at 14:47:50
There might be a lot more to this than you realize, though, Lemonaide. I'm not sure there's anything that could cause a permanent memory problem in someone-- unless there's some general condition that he has that you don't know about.
I just wonder if, given all the trauma in your background, and the fears of depending on someone, you aren't afraid that he'll abandon you-- and are running away because you can't cope with those fears.
I'm not saying you are-- I don't know at all if that could be true. I just know that sometimes abrupt decisions of this sort come not from the motives we think we have, but from other, buried ones that are very powerful.
If the other T did tell you anything personal about your T, it seems quite questionable. I'm not sure what the expectations are-- but depending on the group, that could have been confidential information. I guess I just wonder how he could have gotten into a discussion of you about your current Ts limitations. It's seems a bit wrong of him to have weighed in in that way, when he's being considered to replace him.
Just some thoughts-- again-- I'm just wondering a bit.
I'm really sorry you're going through so much.
Nadezda
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