Posted by lemonaide on September 23, 2008, at 12:42:48
In reply to Re: I am so distressed » lemonaide, posted by Dinah on September 23, 2008, at 9:55:43
Hi Dinah,
I really appreciate you taking the time to talk to me about this, we have been talking on Babble for a long time now, so you have my history you can take in account for. For what I gather, you feel this ending is different than the other ending of my first T. This is good to know because sometimes it is hard to look at ourselves and see our patterns.
This whole thing has made me think about you and your T and the thing with Katrina and how long you stuck it out with him. All the hurt and frustration for him to come back as the T you knew. I keep asking myself do I need to be more accepting and give it more time like you did. But money becomes an issue too, like it did for you at one time, do we keep holding on to the attachment and paying for therapy even when our T is not fully themselves? I just don't know what to do. Maybe there are not right answers anyway. I wrote about my session today in another thread below. But I wanted to respond to what you said, I can tell you really thought about this and put the time into telling me what you noticed about me. I am very grateful for that, it helps so much.
(((Dinah)))
poster:lemonaide
thread:853334
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